Chapter 383

Ren Yiling's family has a hair dryer. Ren Yiling used it when he went home last year. But this year, Ren Yiling couldn't find the hair dryer after washing his head. When he asked Ren Yiling's younger brother, Ren Yiling's younger brother said that his mother said the hair dryer had radiation and put it away.

When guests come to the house to pour tea, they use more than ten or twenty water cups at a time. Ren Yiling tells Ren Yiling's mother that the cups are hard to wash. Let's use disposable paper cups. Ren Yiling's mother says that disposable paper cups have wax in them. She always feels unsafe and will melt into hot water.

Ren Yiling usually criticizes these rumors on the Internet, but Ren Yiling finds that she can't even convince her mother.

Even if Ren Yiling made the rumor clear, Ren Yiling's mother said that she believed it, it would not change the result. For example, Ren Yiling told her that the microwave oven and hair dryer had no radiation, and that the disposable paper cup was safe food grade polypropylene... She said Ren Yiling was right, but she was used to it and could not change it.

To say this, we want to say that the concept is too different, which not only makes Ren Yiling's parents unable to enjoy the convenience of new technology, but also makes Ren Yiling uncomfortable every time he goes home.

The examples cited by Ren Yiling are only superficial. Other deeper conceptual contradictions, such as marriage, family and education for the next generation, are everywhere.

For example, Ren Yiling wants to take Ren Yiling's younger brother to see the latest movie. Ren Yiling's mother says that there is a VIP on TV at home. When there is VIP on TV, you can watch it on TV. Why do you spend that money.

Ren Yiling's parents never take his younger brother to the cinema. Ren Yiling told Ren Yiling's mother that you can see the children in the city. Their parents often take their children to the cinema, drama, travel, various extracurricular activities and interest classes. Young people's families don't have money. When their younger brother goes to high school, they have to go to the school in the city to compare with their classmates in the city, What if the gap between vision and experience is too big

But Ren Yiling's mother said, you grew up like this when you were a child. Young people grew up like this when they were young. What's the problem?

My mother has been urging Ren Yiling to get married early and give birth to a baby. Ren Yiling says that she doesn't want to have a baby. Her mother is angry and says that no one doesn't have a baby. Do you still look like a woman if you don't have a baby.

Ren Yiling doesn't want to give birth to a son, but he has no confidence in marriage. One of her classmates has divorced twice, married three times and had two children.

Ren Yiling's cousin divorced last year, and her daughter was taken away by her cousin. Ren Yiling's cousin lived with her parents after she got married. She has three children. Her family has been disharmonious. There are many conflicts between her cousin and her parents. Her husband and parents-in-law don't deal with them. Now she is on the verge of divorce.

These Ren Yiling's mothers all know that she forces Ren Yiling to get married and have children. She thinks that when a woman is old, she must get married and have children. Ren Yiling can't understand it

My mother also said that now that she has a baby, she can help Ren Yiling take care of it without her. Ren Yiling is even more reluctant. In her heart, all the parents who leave their children in the countryside for their grandparents are irresponsible to their children, so you ask Ren Yiling if they want to live with their parents.

To tell you the truth, Ren Yiling doesn't want to be a grandmother. Her mother wants to be a grandmother. Ren Yiling can't do what she wants. You can scold Ren Yiling for being selfish, but that's the truth.

Ren Yiling's parents are not registered in rural areas. Their lives are decent and their ideas are open-minded. They have two apartments in their own county and city. After retirement, they have pension and medical insurance. It's hard to say about other rural elderly people.

Some things, once discussed, parents are not happy, and Ren Yiling is not?

Some of the estrangements are difficult to resolve. After all, people who grew up in different times have great differences in ideas and habits. Although they are connected by blood, sometimes they can only hurt each other. Is family love a link or a chain of pain.

Most of the time, the person who hurts you the most is not a stranger, but often the person who seems to be the closest to you, which is inevitable.

Another rural child, Han Nuo, tells Fang Tianxing that he once called Han Nuo's mother from a distance of 18000 Li. She suddenly scolds Han Nuo: you bastard.

Han Nuo can't describe the feeling at that moment with words, only know that the tears flow down. Han Nuo asked her why she scolded herself. She said that you were born to me. I scolded and played. What's the matter!

From small to large, such language violence, accompanied by Hannah.

You ask Hannah if his parents love him. Hannah thinks he does. You ask Han Nuo if he loves them. Han Nuo thinks he loves them too. When they are sick, Han Nuo will worry and worry. I hope they are healthy and safe all the time.

But when you ask Han Nuo if he would like to live with them and often accompany them, he thinks, probably not. On the one hand, time, energy and money are not allowed; On the other hand, the work has been very tired, Han Nuo does not want to go home, but also suffered from ubiquitous language and mental violence.

So, after graduation, Hannah left his hometown. There are too many young people like Han Nuo who leave their homes. They leave their hometown for the sake of life and survival. After getting married and starting a business, very few people come back to their parents. Most of them are parents living in the countryside, and young people live in the county, city or other places. Only in the new year, we will be together.

After the Chinese new year, it is the beginning of separation. Most of the rural elderly can enjoy the so-called family happiness only during the Spring Festival. Therefore, it is predictable that most of the rural elderly will have a sad evening. And their children and grandchildren want to change, but they are not strong enough.

There is no chance for survival and happiness at the bottom. Do the children of the poor really want to be the children of the poor? I've read a Japanese myth that the poor monsters at the bottom of Japan want to reproduce. The father of the monsters will deceive the intelligent monsters through the mother's belly before their babies are born, saying that there are many delicious and interesting things outside, Monster babies can live a good life as soon as they are born.

Why does monster dad do this? Because only in this way can poor monster babies choose to be born, and then you know

Therefore, the children of the poor, that is, the second generation of the poor, even though they are brainwashed by the filial piety of the outside world and forced out of breath by life, they still have complaints against their parents subconsciously, even though many of the second generation of the poor do not realize that they have been imperceptibly influenced by these values, It's just that they dare not resist the moral criticism from the public and choose to bear it.

Naturally, when the parents of the poor are in the twilight and become the bottomless hole of consumption, they can only get the blame and complaints from the poor second generation, that is, the so-called "old but not dead is a thief"