Chapter 111： Great Psychologist (Updated)

Chapter 111 The Great Psychologist (Updated)

Xia Fanxing made a series of phone calls from his uncle, agreed a date, and forced him to come to the National Science and Technology University.

Hearing the instructions from the very nice and gentle female voice on the phone, he came to the door of her office.

After ringing the doorbell, he saw an extremely young and beautiful girl.

Although the girl is extremely beautiful, her face does not have the arrogance that a big beauty should have. Instead, she looks like the moon, gentle and not aggressive.

She had a serene aura about her, something he had never seen before in ordinary beautiful girls.

The girl opened the door without even saying hello.

He was silent for a while, then lowered his head and said, "I'm here to find Teacher Ning."

"I'm Teacher Ning." As soon as the girl opened her mouth, it was exactly the same as the voice on the phone.

She is the very powerful psychiatrist that his uncle found for him.

Xia Fanxing was secretly frightened, but also a little irritable.

He didn't really want to go out, and he didn't want to see any psychiatrist.

No matter how good-looking the girl opposite is, the breath on her body makes him feel comfortable.

As long as he heard her identity, he couldn't help but reject her.

It's all coming, and you can't turn around and leave.

Xia Fanxing lowered his head and stopped talking.

Then, he was taken into a room full of books. There were two chairs in the room, as well as a small log-colored desk. There was nothing on the desk except an ultra-thin silver laptop.

She sat down on the chair.

He looked at her for a long time and sat down on one of the chairs.

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Xia Fanxing lowered his head and remained silent.

He was used to the people around him talking to him, and when he opened his mouth, he was preaching, and a great deal of truth was thrown down on him.

Each of them is very good and seems to know more than him.

The man on the opposite side is young and beautiful, but according to his uncle's introduction, I heard that he is a genius, a famous psychiatrist and the youngest psychology professor in the history of the National University of Science and Technology.

That's even more self-perceived, presumably facing a person like him, that's the way he speaks.

He was ready to be trained, but after waiting for a long time, there was no movement.

After a long silence, he finally couldn't help it, and asked depressedly, "Aren't you going to ask me something?"

"About what?" Ning Youguang has always been patient with the client.

"Tell me what is right, what is good, what should be done. Uncle asked me to come to you, didn't he just tell me this?" Xia Fanxing sneered.

"Do you think you are doing something wrong now?" Ning Youguang was not affected by his provocation at all, and his attitude was as gentle as before.

Xia Fanxing couldn't help covering his face, "Yes, uncle must have told you about my situation."

Tears quickly flowed from his fingers.

Ning Youguang didn't say anything and continued to watch silently.

Xia Fanxing couldn't hold back even more.

Crying arrogantly, the whole person has a feeling of being broken.

He cried for a long time.

Ning Youguang has been waiting silently, saying nothing.

During this period, she just quietly gave him a box of tissues.

After a long time, Xia Fanxing's cry gradually subsided, and he raised his head to look at Ning Youguang.

Even though she didn't do anything or say anything, he felt better.

"My uncle asked me to come to you and said that you could help me. I now decide to listen to you. Tell me what I should do, and I will do it. I know that my uncle is also doing it for my own good."

Ning Youguang ignored what he said at all, but said with a smile, "Mr. Xia, I always only teach my students."

Obviously, Xia Fanxing is not her student.

She wouldn't give him a lecture.

If you don’t give lectures, you won’t be able to explain big truths to him.

This is not what he thought.

"Then..." Xia Fanxing's face showed confusion, "How do we do case consultation between us?"

Ning Youguang looked at the young man who had cut his hair, shaved, changed into clean clothes, and cleaned himself up, and chuckled, "This is a good question, then let me tell you, psychological counseling is a spontaneous process. , When doing a case, the client and the consultant must be in a mutually voluntary situation, the case can proceed normally, which means that I can only help you when you come to me because you need consultation. We Once we have made an appointment to cooperate, we need to draw up a contract. When the consultation is over, I will tell you about your situation and progress, in black and white, and write it clearly. This is a very professional case consultation. We all need to be responsible for the process, and we need to take it seriously.”

Young Master Xia, whose face and facial features are clearly exposed in front of others, although he wears a hat and bows his head habitually, one can tell at a glance that he is a handsome young man.

Just because he is too thin, there is no flesh on the cheeks, and the bones are a little protruding, making him a little less good-looking.

His skin was also paler than the average person because he hadn't been out for a long time, with blue bloodshot streaks, and he looked gloomy and gloomy.

Xia Fanxing's brain was running fast.

Although he hasn't figured out the situation yet, he understands that asking Teacher Ning for consultation must be done voluntarily, and he is also responsible for the results of the consultation.

This means that after the consultation, no matter what happens, he has to pay for it.

"I understand. I am willing to accept consultation and cooperate with you. Sorry, I just had a bad attitude. Excuse me, can we continue consultation?"

"We've had a formal consultation."

Ning Youguang's attitude was more relaxed and calm than he thought.

Next, she patiently explained to him what the client and the counselor need to do when carrying out the case.

"We need to interview for one hour every week. The length of this consultation case cycle depends on your specific situation. I suggest that your consultation starts from next week, every Wednesday from 10 am to 11 o'clock in the morning. When the case is over, we will Will move on to the next consultation program, have you decided?"

Xia Fanxing just wanted to nod his head, but he thought that he had always made decisions without thinking like this before, and even regretted it later, or he would just do as the elders in the family said.

As a result, he did it reluctantly.

He seems to rarely think twice and make decisions according to his own ideas.

The promise to the mouth was closed in the throat.

"Can I go back and think for a while and call you again, my decision?"

"Of course." Ning Youguang stood up.

There are no mandatory requirements and no excessive recommendations.

Xia Fanxing felt relieved and sighed softly.

Before leaving Ning Youguang's office.

Xia Fanxing had already gone out, but turned around and looked at Teacher Ning who was standing by the door to see him off.

He hesitated for a moment, then asked, "Mr. Ning, do you think I will get better?"

"Of course, to be willing to do this job is to believe that everyone who comes to me has the possibility of being cured."

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Xia Fanxing, with his pocket and hat on, slowly walked out of the UCAS gate with his head down.

He didn't take a taxi home immediately, and locked himself up quickly, but walked aimlessly along the road outside the UCAS.

He was thinking about what Teacher Ning said, and what the next consultation would look like.

Xia Fanxing, who came home that day, didn't know what to do, and felt that the days seemed to pass very slowly.

The first psychological consultation made him feel that he had gained some strength, but it did not last long.

When he got home, he became the same as before.

Most of the time, he felt anxious.

The wall clock on the wall, every minute and every second that swings past seems to be more difficult than in the past.

Finally arrived on Wednesday morning as promised with Teacher Ning.

This time, he shaved his beard, washed his head, and went to the National University of Science and Technology without the need for his uncle to press him.

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This is the second time Xia Fanxing has sat face to face with her in Teacher Ning's office.

Whenever the client came to the office, Ning Youguang used to listen first and then talk.

She didn't speak, Xia Fanxing was even more silent.

Until Ning Youguang felt that the other party was restless, he asked aloud, "How are you feeling today?"

"It's okay." Xia Fanxing answered perfunctorily.

Ning Youguang gave an example to let him see his inner emotional value more clearly.

He frowned and said more specifically.

Only then did she know that his emotional level was so low that it was only a little bit better than wanting to commit suicide.

"Okay, then I see, have you ever had suicidal thoughts?"

"Yes, a month ago, I didn't want to do anything at home, I didn't want to play games, I didn't want to surf the Internet, I couldn't sleep at night, I didn't want to eat during the day, and I felt like I was shrouded in darkness. I didn't know what to do. On the top of the building, I really wanted to jump down, but when someone was walking downstairs, I gave up the idea." Xia Fanxing took a deep breath and seemed to cheer up, "I didn't commit suicide at other times. Impulsive."

"So, how are you feeling now?"

"I don't feel motivated to get out the door and I don't know how to continue living."

"Have you always felt this way?"

Xia Fanxing sniffed, "Yes, I often feel hopeless in life, occasionally read a book or a movie and want to do something, but when I'm ready to act, I shrink back, and then fall into more negative emotions. "

"Can you tell me your story?" Ning Youguang, who was talking to Xia Fanxing, had a quiet tenderness in his eyes.

As soon as Xia Fanxing saw her eyes, she couldn't help sobbing, and she burst into tears.

After that, I kept thinking about the unhappy past events that happened to me, and picked out some of my deep memories to talk to her.

It took a while.

Ning Youguang asked, "Is there any more?"

"Yes." Xia Fanxing closed his eyes, "a lot, but I don't want to talk about it now."

I would rather have the light to allow the other party to be silent, but also to allow the other party to escape.

It seems like a century has passed.

Xia Fanxing whispered: "Mr. Ning, my back hurts so much, can I get up and walk?"

"Yes." Ning Youguang nodded.

Xia Fanxing propped up the chair, got up from the seat, hunched his back and started walking around Ning Youguang's office.

He walked very slowly at first, but gradually he stood up straighter and walked faster. 1314

Teacher Ning: Children who grew up under the pressure and criticism of their parents are so pitiful...

(end of this chapter)