Chapter 112 What should I do?
Xia Fanxing recalled the process of growing up and laughed at himself: "I never thought before that the way parents treat their children will have such great control over their children, but every child has no right to choose their parents. ."
"You're right, parents rarely hurt their children consciously, they just unconsciously pass on their ideas and behaviors to the next generation."
"Then what should I do?" Xia Fanxing felt a little suffocated.
"Therefore, when children grow up, once they realize that their parents' behaviors and concepts have caused harm to them, they must know how to adjust their basic behaviors."
"Then how do I adjust it?"
"Okay, today's time has passed for a long time, next time we will discuss based on today's questions."
Xia Fanxing was stunned for a moment. He didn't expect the consultation time to pass so quickly today.
He took out his phone and saw that three hours had passed.
He felt a little guilty, and habitually bowed his head and apologized: "I'm sorry for delaying Teacher Ning for so long."
"I always know the time, so you don't have to feel guilty, just pay me on time."
"Okay." Xia Fanxing just breathed a sigh of relief and wanted to say thank you.
However, I heard the gentle teacher Ning on the opposite side assign him a task without gentleness at all: "I'm going on a business trip next week, I'll leave you a homework, go back and think about your childhood and think about what else is profound. The memory of yours is painful and unforgettable, and the homework is done, send it to me, and let's see what we can learn from it, see you next week."
"Mr. Ning, I hate doing homework the most, can you not do it?" Xia Fanxing became irritable.
"You may not do it."
"too……"
"Then our cooperation is over."
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Before the business trip, Ning's familyday.
It was raining outside the window on a weekend afternoon.
A faint warm fragrance lingers in the house, which is the incense ordered by the hostess of the house.
Ning Youguang and Ning Youyu, two brothers and sisters, were sitting on the sofa eating cherries and mangosteens, and chatting with each other.
"Xiaoyu, why does my sister feel that you have been talking less recently?"
"Yeah." Ning Youyu spat out the cherry pit in his mouth.
"Well what does it mean?"
Ning Youyu continued to eat cherries without speaking.
Ning Youguang looked at him, his eyes turned slightly, and asked, "Did the teacher tell you something about our little fish in school recently? Or something unhappy happened."
Ming Jinxin sat opposite them, flipping through the latest fashion magazines she received.
heard her words and looked up at them.
"The teacher said that if you don't abide by the agreement during the lunch break at noon and disturb others with your words, you won't have afternoon tea and fruit to eat." Ning Youyu frowned, spit out the cherry pit, and said.
"So, you've become less talkative now?"
"The teacher also criticized me, saying that if I did not perform well, there would be no reward."
Ming Jinxin put down the magazine, "Did the teacher really say that?"
"Yes." Ning Youyu looked at her mother seriously and nodded.
"Then can you repeat what the teacher said to your mother?" Ming Jinxin looked at Ning Youguang, and his voice softened.
"The teacher said, if you don't follow the rules, you won't have any fruit to eat, and you have to play games at the back, did you hear that?" Ning Youyu repeated the teacher's words, imitating the teacher's tone.
"Yu Yu, if the teacher talks like this, then mother doesn't feel that she is criticizing you. She just made rules for the whole class, not against you."
Ning Youyu wrinkled her face: "However, what she said made me very unhappy and very sad. Mom, please tell the teacher."
Ming Jinxin was a little worried, but she said patiently: "But the rules that the teacher set for the whole class, my mother has no way to communicate with her, because you don't accept it alone, so you can change it."
Ning Youyu pouted and continued to eat cherries.
Ning Youguang chuckled at the right time: "This strawberry is delicious, who bought it?"
"My mother bought it." Ning Youyu replied.
"Auntie must have spent a lot of money, right?"
"It cost a lot of money." Ning Youyu continued to answer.
This strawberry was bought by his mother in the supermarket, so he remembered it.
"Wow, Xiaoyu knows so much?"
"Yes." Ning Youyu's white and tender bun face was full of seriousness, and when he looked at people with his round eyes, he was very cute.
"Then I'll go to the supermarket. If I don't have the money, I don't know if they'd like to give me strawberries." Ning Youguang smiled, but a pitiful sigh was on his mouth.
"Sister, that's definitely not possible. Everything in the supermarket costs money."
"I'm so sad, I have no money, and I want strawberries from the supermarket."
Ming Jinxin pursed her lips and smiled.
Ning Youyu was a little anxious. He didn't eat the cherries even if he threw them away. He followed the way his sister usually reasoned with him, walked over to her, and reached out and hugged her.
The voice was soft and waxy: "Sister, that's what the supermarket stipulates. If you don't give money, there will be no strawberries. Do you want to buy strawberries? I have money, give it to you, and I will take you to buy it. Bar."
Ning Youguang was warmed by his younger brother and couldn't be more happy.
Ming Jinxin also smiled: "your sister wants to tell you that the rules ordered by the teacher are the same as those ordered in the supermarket, and everyone must abide by them. If my sister wants strawberries, she has to spend money to buy them. If you eat something delicious early at school, you have to work hard, don't you think?"
Ning Youyu thought for a while, then nodded: "I see."
After , he saw his son regain his former vivacity.
Ming Jinxin said with emotion: "Yes, you should observe carefully. If you don't say it, I didn't realize that Yu Yu has been silent a lot in the past few days."
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A little later.
Ming Jinxin learned that Ning Youguang was going to Boston for a business trip in two days, and immediately sent a message to the family group, asking Ning Yi and Ming Chao to go home early and go out to eat with the family at night.
Ning's family had dinner at a private club not far from home.
The clubhouse has an elegant environment, good privacy and good dishes.
In addition to being expensive, there is nothing wrong with it.
Ning's family come often.
At the beginning of dinner, the family expressed their celebration and concern for Ning Youguang's upcoming trip to the United States to attend an international academic conference on behalf of the motherland.
"You are with the professor this time, but you have to behave well and show your grace and bearing to the guests from other countries."
"By the way, I have just asked the ba guys to send photos of the latest clothes and shoes. When we get home in the evening, we will choose a few sets, and you can bring them to the United States to wear." Ming Jinxin.
"Pay attention to safety on the road. People outside are complicated. Try not to go out alone. Boston is not as safe as our country." Ming Dynasty.
"At this meeting, there are international psychologists. They have performed well and won glory for the motherland." Ning Yi.
"I see, I will take good care of myself, you don't have to worry." Ning Youguang.
"Sister, remember to bring me gifts when you go to America." Ning Youyu.
"it is good."
"I really need to prepare more money." Ming Chao put down his chopsticks and took out his mobile phone to operate.
Ning Youguang soon heard a "ding" from his cell phone, and a message came in.
She took it out and took a look:
"[Bank of China] account ending in 4134 transferred RMB 1,000,000.0 to your account ending in 4144 at 19:41 on April 30. Anyone who asks for a verification code is a liar, don't give it!]
"Brother, I am rich." Ning Youguang laughed.
Ming Dynasty didn't know what happened. In recent years, he always found various excuses to give her money.
"It's not too much money." Ming Chao picked up his chopsticks again, took a bite of the dish, and ate slowly.
Others are handsome, well-mannered, and eat well.
What I thought in my heart was:
"How much money can you make as a teacher?"
"Wait or turn around later."
"I don't know if it's enough for another million?"
"Yes, you need to bring more money when you go abroad." Ning Yi also took out his mobile phone and started to operate it.
"[Bank of China] account ending in 5133 transferred RMB 1,000,000.0 to your account ending in 4144 at 19:43 on April 30. Anyone who asks for a verification code is a liar, don't give it!]
"..." Ning Youguang.
"If you have it, you have it, shouldn't your father and brother give you pocket money? After a long trip abroad, just take a good stroll and buy whatever you want in Boston, don't save it." Ming Jinxin.
"Mom, doesn't my sister have no money? When you get home, give me my New Year's money, and I will bring my sister to the United States." Ning Yuyu.
As soon as he said these words, the expressions of Ning Yi and Ming Chao changed.
"What's wrong with no money?" Ning Yi asked with a puzzled face.
Ming Dynasty didn't say a word, and started to pick up the mobile phone to transfer money.
Ning Youguang quickly stopped him: "Brother, it's not that I have no money, I was joking with Xiaoyu in the afternoon."
Ming Dynasty was dubious: "Isn't it true that there is no money?"
"Really, I have money, and my aunt introduced me a client recently. Dong Xia is very generous, and the consultation fee is very sufficient."
Ming Dynasty then continued to eat with his eyebrows twisted.
I'm concerned about my daughter's business trip abroad.
Ming Jinxin went on to say, "I plan to resign Xiao Zhang from my family."
Xiao Zhang is the young aunt in the family.
"What's the matter?" Ning Yi asked in surprise, "Didn't you say that her craftsmanship is very good?"
"It's pretty good." Ming Jinxin nodded, "Auntie Bi Liu's cooking is delicious, Chinese and Western food, all kinds of cuisines can be cooked, she can cook what I order, and she can cook what I don't order."
"Then why did you quit?" Ning Yi was surprised.
"Don't our family eat dumplings a few times a week? Sometimes I let her take away the leftover noodles, and sometimes let her take away the leftover fillings. However, recently I found that she made her own decisions, leaving some fillings and keeping them. Some noodles, take them away after get off work." Ming Jinxin paused, "This is a bit embarrassing, I can't understand her way of doing this..."
"The craftsmanship is good, but the character is not good, so you can't use it." Ning Yi understood.
finished.
Ming Jinxin came to the conclusion: "It's really hard to find a good worker these days."
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The day of departure.
Ning Youguang went to Professor Yu's house to pick up the teacher to the airport. When he arrived at the airport, he found that his senior brother Chen Yifan was already waiting at the airport.
Seeing them coming, Chen Yifan took their luggage: "Teacher, junior sister, there is still an hour to board the plane, let's go to the lounge to rest for a while."
Professor Yu agreed, and the three of them went into the lounge to rest.
Ning Youguang went to fetch water for the professor.
"What do you drink, brother?" she asked casually.
She and Professor Yu are accustomed to carrying thermos cups when they go out, and they both carry thermos cups with them every day.
Chen Yifan, she often sees him drinking.
"I also drink water, there is a cup beside the water dispenser." Chen Yifan got up and went to the water dispenser with her.
While waiting for the water to be filled, Ning Youguang smiled and said:
"We drink water, you don't have to drink with us."
Chen Yifan's ears turned red, "Drinking water is good, I will drink less beverages in the future to fight sugar."
"Can you quit Coke?" Ning Youguang joked.
Drinking happy water is one of the few hobbies of Senior Brother Chen.
"I can quit." Chen Yifan paused, took a sip of the warm water already loaded in the water dispenser, "The medicine you prescribed me last time was very good, and I don't get acne much now, thank you."
"I saw it and knew that you followed the doctor's orders." Ning Youguang pursed her lips and smiled.
When the brothers and sisters returned to the lounge with water on both ends, Professor Yu put on his eyes and looked at the materials.
"Didn't the teacher say take a break? Why are you looking at the information again?" Ning Youguang handed her the water. "How can you sleep in this environment? Why don't you take a look at the materials for a while." Professor Yu took the thermos cup and handed the materials to her, "You can also look at these materials, if you don't understand anything, you can find them. I'll discuss, don't be nervous."
"Teacher, I'm not nervous."
"Come, have a taste." Professor Yu took out two packets of biscuits from the bag next to them and gave one to Ning Youguang and Chen Yifan. "This is what your master prepared for me before going out. He said that it has been a long time since the meeting. Bring two pieces of supplementary energy with you. You can also try it."
was caught off guard by being fed a mouthful of dog food.
Ning Youguang and Chen Yifan looked at each other, then drank water and ate cookies in silence.
Not to mention, although it is a bit sweet, the taste is quite good.
Professor Yu saw that the two apprentices were eating well, and he was also happy, smiling, "When I was a child, my mother had no milk, I didn't like to drink cow's milk or goat's milk since I was a child. The biscuits are soaked in water. No matter what kind of biscuits, they must be soaked in water to eat. Watching the biscuits become white and fat in the hot water, eating them with a spoon, it feels very delicious. Now every night snack is a In this way, your master prepared it, using a small bowl, a small spoon, and making different biscuits, I am only responsible for eating them."
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When you grow up and have a career, will love be far behind?
(end of this chapter)