Chapter 131 Two more
"You can't figure out why someone exercised the right of veto, and you feel that your dignity has been shattered?" Ning Youguang said.
"Yes, if the handsome guy sees someone with better conditions than me, or someone with similar conditions, I would also recognize him, but why is he reading Xiaoshi?" Li Qing was greatly puzzled.
Being able to tell the reasons for your pain is also an improvement.
Ning Youguang Wensheng said: "I know you are very hurt, but what makes you sad the most is not that the handsome guy doesn't like you, but that you are a complete failure in the comparison with Xiaoshi."
Li Qing thought for a while, "You're right."
Ning Youguang took a sip of water and asked slowly, "Did you get used to comparing yourself with others since you were a child in your native family?"
"What's wrong with that? Without comparing, how do you know how you are, don't you?"
Ning Youguang sighed and said, "Dear, this is the crux of the problem, in fact, the answer to what a person is is not by comparing with others, but the key lies in himself, take yourself. Say, do you think you've changed from a week ago?"
"Of course, I have lost a lot of hair, dark circles under my eyes are worse, my spirit is poor, and my complexion is not good..."
"How do you feel about these changes?"
"I don't look as good as I used to, and I don't have the spirit before. I even always feel that I am not good, that is not good, and I begin to wonder if I was a little self-righteous in my previous evaluation of myself, and I will keep thinking, what is wrong with me? What is the difference between Xiaoshi and so on?"
Li Qing became more and more frustrated.
Ning Youguang raised his hand, interrupting her words and preventing her from self-criticism.
She said: "I'm asking you, are you still a master's student from the National University of Science and Technology, a tenth-level piano player, a wealthy family, 164 in height, weighing less than 100 years, beautiful in appearance, have a car and a house in Beijing, love to travel, and know how to do it well. Cai, the helpful, kind-hearted Li Qing?"
Li Qing gave a rare laugh, "Of course, these are all me. Although I'm in a bad state now, it doesn't mean that everything I have has disappeared."
Ning Youguang also smiled and hit the railroad while it was hot: "Yes, you are still you, you just experienced a rather absurd secret love, a good-looking boy who is not familiar with you and has nothing to do with you made his choice. , and you still can't figure out why he made such a choice, but as long as you respect his choice and know rationally that those two have nothing to do with you, your life is not affected, and your life will continue as usual. , you should fall in love and fall in love in the future, like whoever you like, more is the freedom of choice, isn't it?"
After being silent for a long time, Li Qing asked in a hoarse voice, "So, I'm not worse than Xiaoshi, am I?"
Ning Youguang laughed and said, "Of course, who said that two girls like the same boy, when the boy chooses one, the other girl must be the worse one? This kind of reasoning is completely unreasonable and illogical. what."
After thinking about it, she then asked, "Did you watch Taiwan idol dramas when you were young?"
Li Qing was interested and shouted, "Of course I watch it, but I like to watch it. Every time I have a holiday, I watch it on TV."
"At that time, were the second girls on TV all born well, beautiful, well educated, super white and rich and beautiful who were loved by their parents and many relatives and friends?"
"Yes." Li Qing nodded seriously.
"Are the first females the kind of ordinary ugly ducklings who are not born well, look mediocre, don't have any education, don't have any good skills, and don't do well in society?"
"Yes, so..."
"Did you not feel embarrassed watching it at that time, but now if you watch this kind of TV series again, you will not be able to watch an episode, and you will feel that not only the male protagonist is blind, but the screenwriter is also mentally disabled. I know that in real life, there are many girls with such good conditions as the second female, and most of them are tall, rich and handsome. How could they rush to compare with such a girl who is not at the level because of their love interest, and would be so stupid for such a man. Crazy, crazy for him, ramming a wall for him?"
"..." seems to be talking about myself.
"Now you, what would you do if you were the second female?"
Li Qing buried his head in the pillow, his voice muffled, "Of course, stay away from the male and female protagonists, these abnormal human beings, who are only beautiful, or find a more splendid flower field."
"That's not it." Ning Youguang laughed, "Have you figured it out?"
"Yes, this is because I trapped myself in a cage. I don't need to compare with Xiaoshi at all. It's his right that the handsome guy doesn't like me. Emotional matters cannot be forced. They are born in my life. words, it doesn't matter."
Ning Youguang nodded with a smile, "That's right, you have to believe that you have always been good, and there is no market for the opposite sex. Now, it's just that I met a boy who wasn't quite right for a short time. , you still have a lot of possibilities for better love."
Li Qing's face also reappeared, "I understand, I will never criticize myself and deny my own value in comparison with others in the future."
Ning Youguang smiled, got up and went to the kitchen to get two plates of cherry tomatoes and lychees that had been washed a long time ago, and placed them in front of Li Qing, "Yes, there is no harm without comparison."
The knot of the heart is opened, and the person is relaxed all of a sudden.
Seeing the two plates of watery and beautiful fruits in front of him, Li Qing's appetite was instantly opened.
I didn't even need to say hello, I picked up the fruit plate and ate it.
After eating two plates of fruit, she stretched out like a well-fed cat, and then fell asleep on the sofa in Ning Youguang's room.
The sun shines through the window and quietly falls on her body. Li Qing, who has fallen into a deep sleep, gradually fades from blue and white, and a layer of pink appears, sweet like a baby.
Ning Youguang squeezed her wrist lightly, checked her pulse, and found that her body was indeed fine, so she got up gently, went to the cabinet and took a blanket and put it on her.
This sleep, Li Qing slept until dusk.
Ning Youguang had quietly gone out for lunch, and quietly returned to read a book in his room.
When Li Qing woke up, he saw Ning Youguang, who was languidly leaning against the window and reading a book at a glance, as quiet and peaceful as a beautiful painting.
She stared at her for a long time, as if she was in a dream, unwilling to wake up. 1314
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