Chapter 284 Two more
Hearing this, Ning Youguang has determined that Liang Yiyi's husband is a mental controller.
He often used cold violence against Liang Yiyi, and refused to explain his anger or disappearance for no reason. When he came back, he would carefully prepare some romantic gestures to cover up his excessive behavior. By the way, he misled the facts and made Liang Yiyi constantly compromise. Suffering pain and anxiety alone.
Before marriage, he was gentle and helpful, and showed a very high tolerance for his lover, which also led Liang Yiyi to like his character very much, so that after dating for a long time, he decided that he was her Mr.Right.
At that time, her parents were still there, and they felt that her daughter's boyfriend was a bit strange and needed more observation, but they passed away after a short period of observation.
Liang Yiyi married her husband again under the great fear of losing both parents suddenly.
And her husband is also taking advantage of her fear of losing her parents, her worries about her body, and her deep desire to be understood, appreciated and loved... For so many years, he has been manipulating her.
made her idealize her husband too much, desperately wanting to believe that he is the person in the world who loves her the most, can protect herself the most, and is the most trustworthy person.
Until the first problem —
is also the first time he accused her of doing something that she didn't do and expected her to agree with him.
When she thought it was an accident, but the problem will come back eventually.
But because she was being manipulated in getting along, she didn't want to blame him or re-examine him, but stuck to the romantic image of the perfect lover in her mind.
The family changes that happened to Liang Yiyi, as well as her character, provided the perfect entry point for her husband's manipulative behavior.
Liang Yiyi's husband's personality is a typical "charismatic gaslight operator".
In daily life, some men often use this method to conquer women.
They can be very confusing at times—
makes people feel that something is wrong when they get along with them, but they also enjoy the romantic and sweet feeling they bring.
And they have a set of very meticulous logic to justify their point of view, so that the other party thinks what he said is actually reasonable, and they are gradually brainwashed by him, thinking that what he said is right and everything he does is good.
When you have a relationship with such a "charismatic gaslight operator", whether male or female, they will be bewitched and restrained by them as if they have been poisoned, thus losing themselves and even other life injuries.
This kind of mental manipulation does not only exist in the relationship between the sexes, but also in the workplace and in the family with a high probability.
It’s just that some people can tell the difference, and some people can’t.
When Liang Yiyi met her husband, it was the beginning of her pain and lack of confidence.
So much so that she has changed from a lovely, carefree rich family daughter to a person who is rambunctious, has no self-confidence, and is full of doubts about the world and herself.
Now what Ning Youguang needs to confirm is—to what stage Liang Yiyi's husband has controlled her.
thus formulating the most effective treatment plan to free her from the long-term mental manipulation.
The essence of "mental manipulation" is control, and control is to make a person unconditionally believe what he says.
All of Liang Yiyi's weaknesses can be targeted by her husband.
At the beginning, he attacked her figure and appearance, which was the first stage. 1314
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(end of this chapter)