Chapter 330： Why do you like to share your daily life?

Chapter 330 Why do you like to share your daily life?

But she believed in Ning Youguang's professional ability after all.

Therefore, after being silent for a while, she said earnestly to Ning Youguang, "Mr. Ning, I'm sorry, I still don't quite understand what you said, but I believe in your professional ability, and my cousin would ask you to help me. , how much trouble."

She paused slightly, "As for the issue of the original family you mentioned, if you need the cooperation of my aunt and uncle, you can tell me, and I will do their ideological work."

"Okay." Ning Youguang said with a gentle smile, "I don't need you to guard me for the time being, why don't you call Weiwei and see where she is, and let her accompany you around our school, we There is a ginkgo forest in the school that is beautiful now."

"Okay." Miss Wang smiled, with gratitude in her eyes, "I'll trouble you here. It's almost time, we'll come over."

…

When Ning Youguang returned to the office again, he saw Xiaotian swiping his phone.

She asked with a chuckle, "How is it? Are you in a better mood?"

"Much better." Xiaotian swiped his phone for a while before raising his head, "I feel better when my cousin is gone, but I get annoyed when I hear her talk."

Ning Youguang chuckled, "Isn't there a lot of pressure recently?"

Xiaotian lowered her head again and was silent for a long time before she asked Ning Youguang, "Have you read my news online?"

"I have seen it." Ning Youguang said.

"I knew it." Xiaotian sneered, "You must think I'm ridiculous, right?"

Ning Youguang slowly shook his head, "Nothing funny."

Xiaotian was stunned, "Are you sure?"

"I'm very sure." Ning Youguang's clear eyes seemed to penetrate Xiaotian's black sunglasses and landed on her eyes.

Such clear eyes made the latter turn his head uncomfortably, wanting to dodge.

Ning Youguang's attitude did not change in the slightest because of her dodging and escaping, and she still looked at her quietly.

Dodged for a while, Xiaotian turned his head again, and his eyes fell on Ning Youguang's face again.

She could feel that the professor in front of her who was even better looking than a female star and looked particularly young was really not lying.

"Why?" she asked in confusion, "Just because you are a psychiatrist?"

Ning Youguang said, "You can understand that."

"So, do you think I'm sick too?" Xiaotian felt a little uncomfortable again.

Ning Youguang took a sip of water indifferently, "Why do you think I don't think you are funny because I think you are sick?"

"Isn't it?" The rising of discomfort in his heart made Xiaotian erect thorns.

"This is your opinion, not mine." Ning Youguang said warmly, "And your opinion makes me uncomfortable again."

Xiaotian's face froze.

Ning Youguang laughed, "You can ask me why I don't think you are funny."

Xiaotian was silent.

Ning Youguang said, "Many times, we are accustomed to use our own ideas to interpret other people's words, and often misinterpret them. In the process, many people like to insist that their interpretation is correct, so, As a result, many of us feel that we are not understood and cannot understand others in our daily life. To solve this conflict of mutual incomprehension is actually very simple, that is, whenever we feel uncomfortable, we may as well be patient. Come on, ask the other person—'What exactly do you mean by saying this?', this can effectively prevent us from getting along unhappy because we don't understand each other."

Xiaotian asked after listening carefully, "Why don't you think I'm funny like them?"

Ning Youguang said, "You must have a reason for doing this that you think is right. No one will do what they think is wrong."

Xiaotian said, "Yes, I'm right again, why do they all say I'm wrong, and laugh at me, why can't I wear so many fake brand names? So many internet celebrities and celebrities are setting people up, I What's wrong with setting up a character? Why do they treat me so harshly, I don't believe that they live without lying..."

Ning Youguang quietly and patiently listened to Xiaotian venting his anger.

After she finished speaking, she asked gently, "Are you in a better mood?"

Xiaotian pursed his lips and nodded.

Ning Youguang said, "I'm in a better mood, then let's talk about half of the topics we talked about before."

"What topic?" Xiaotian asked in confusion.

"The one we wish we had a better life with."

"Aren't we finished?"

"No." Ning Youguang shook his head, "The things we discussed before were all external conditions. If a person wants to live well, in addition to external conditions, there are also internal conditions that need to be satisfied. You know what this internal condition is. ?"

"Be loved?" Xiaotian replied.

"Yes." Ning Youguang said, "Internally, we all need love, respect, care, recognition, companionship, etc. Among these needs, some of them can be allowed to be unsatisfied, and with them, we can live better; Some must be satisfied, in order to survive.”

Xiaotian said, "If you don't have these, you will have money."

Ning Youguang smiled, "As Xibao said in Yishu's book, 'If you don't give me a lot of love, then give me a lot of money?'".

Xiaotian said, "Isn't it? Don't all girls think like this now?"

"Then do you think Xibao is really happy? Can money really solve all problems and make us live happily?"

Xiaotian nodded and shook his head.

Ning Youguang said, "From Xibao, we can see that when we are relatively poor in material aspects, we will think that if one day we make a fortune, then all the problems can be solved. Besides, I don't need anything, but in fact, when people really have money, they will find that many problems still cannot be solved. Happiness is not just about money. If this is the case, then all the rich people in the world will be Everyone is happy, but in fact?"

Xiaotian shook his head, "No."

Ning Youguang smiled softly.

"Let's talk about other topics."

"What topic?"

“How about we discuss why so many people like to share their lives online now?”

Xiaotian said, "Does this still need to be discussed? Isn't everyone like this now?"

Ning Youguang said, "Yes, since the day social media came into being, everyone has had such a tacit understanding that they like to share the good side of their life, and less or no content that they are unhappy with. Therefore, every time we Scanning Weibo, Xiaohongshu, etc., all you see is the beauty of others, but what is the truth of life? Everyone keeps showing their beautiful life on the Internet, what is the superficial reason?”1314

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