Lin Bai hesitated slightly, but Ye Qingqing was right. Divorce was a relief for her, but it hurt Xiaojie. She couldn't be too selfish, and just ignore her son's feelings for her own happiness.
"And there is another problem. Even if you get divorced, the judge may not award Xiaojie to you. After all, it was your mother-in-law who raised Xiaojie. You didn't actually participate in Xiaojie's growth." Ye Qingqing pointed out the fact .
Before the child is ten years old, the court will definitely consider the side that is most conducive to the child's growth when deciding on the child's custody. Although Lin Baiwei's income is higher than her husband's, Xiaojie's father's income is not low, and his education is even better. , whether it is hardware or software, the husband and wife are on par.
But Xiaojie was brought up by his grandmother. This is the most important bargaining chip. No matter whether the old lady took care of her grandson or not, it is a fact that she raised the child. The court will not care about the child's height and habits. The general direction, and the details will not be considered too much.
Lin Bai's expression changed slightly, "I can hire the best lawyer."
If Xiaojie was allowed to follow her husband, she would definitely be brought by her mother-in-law. Xiaojie would really be destroyed, so how could she be at ease.
Ye Qingqing shook her head, "It's hard to say, of course it may be awarded to you, but it is more likely to be awarded to your husband, Xiaojie is already five years old, he has his own consciousness, the judge will definitely ask Xiaojie who he wants to be with. Life, do you think Xiaojie would be willing to be with you or his grandma?"
Lin Baiwei's expression changed again. He looked at his son who was playing with Xiaozhu. He couldn't help but walk over and asked in a low voice, "Xiaojie, who would you rather live with, mother and grandma?"
"Mom, where are you going?"
Xiaojie blinked and heard that Lin Bai's tone was wrong. He was not as unreasonable as before, afraid that his mother and grandma would quarrel again.
"If mom goes to another place, she will take you away. You won't be able to see grandma and dad again in the future. Would you like to?" Lin Baiwei said more directly, trying to test his son's heart.
Xiaojie was startled with fright, his face turned pale, he shook his head vigorously, tears streaming down his face, "Mom, are you going to divorce Dad? Don't you? I won't eat fried chicken legs and watch TV anymore. , running every day, I will obey you obediently... you don't want to divorce..."
Lin Baiwei was also taken aback. She didn't expect her son's mind to be so sharp, and she guessed her plan at once. Seeing that Xiaojie was out of breath, she couldn't bear to try again. She hugged her son and comforted her. "My mother is not divorced, but my mother is hesitating whether to go on a business trip. It takes a long time. My mother can't bear you, so she wants to take you there to live."
Xiaojie burst into laughter, wiped his tears, shook his head and said, "I don't want to go, Mom, why do you have to go so far, aren't we at home?"
Lin Bai smiled, wiped away Xiaojie's tears, let him and Xiaozhu continue to play, returned to Ye Qingqing and sat down, frowning slightly.
"Xiaojie doesn't have me in his heart. He prefers his father and his grandparents."
Lin Bai laughed at herself, feeling bitter in her heart. The son she gave birth to so hard did not love her. She was really a failed mother.
Ye Qingqing comforted: "Actually it's normal. How much time do you spend with Xiaojie throughout the year? Your mother-in-law accompanies him every day. Children actually have simple thoughts. They only look at superficial love and don't think about deeper things."