Lin Baiwei was still a little unwilling, "I was almost forty when I gave birth to Xiaojie, an advanced mother, and I also have gestational hypertension, which is very dangerous. I went to the hospital to protect the child in seven months. Bo is still tough."
It was really life-threatening, and doctors recommended termination of the pregnancy several times, just because they were afraid that the size would not be able to be preserved by then.
But Lin Baiwei couldn't bear it. It's been seven months. She can feel the baby's fetal movement every day.
From the seven months to the two months of giving birth, she was worried every day, afraid that the child would not be born, and she would die a little, but fortunately, she was lucky, and finally gave birth to a son without any risk.
"I only took three months of vacation. The doctor gave me a sick leave note. I could apply for a one-month extension, but I was useless. I was afraid that if I didn't go to work, my job would not be preserved, but even if I didn't go to work for three months. I went to work within a day, and the position that originally belonged to me was not kept, and was robbed by my subordinates.”
Lin Bai smiled bitterly. At that time, she returned to the company full of energy and wanted to do a great job, but she received a notice from her boss that her position was replaced by a younger subordinate, and she became the subordinate of the subordinate. Such a gap She couldn't bear it, fortunately, the contract was soon to be filled, she resigned when the time was up, and then jumped to the current company.
"This society is inherently unfair to women, especially mothers with children. You are still successful." Ye Qingqing comforted.
Lin Bai smiled wryly, "But I have put in ten times more effort than others, leaving early and returning late, with the stars and the moon. In recent years, I have slept less than five hours on average, and it is common to work overtime. The time spent on the plane is longer than that at home. Too many, ten men can't match my hard work alone."
She wiped the corners of her eyes, her voice was a little choked, "I work so hard, the main reason is to give Xiaojie a better platform for growth, I also want to be like other mothers, play with him every day and tell him bedside stories at night. , take him out to play on weekends.
But I don't even have enough time to sleep. How can I balance work and family? People who say this must have no children. They don't even know that if a woman wants to achieve something, she must pay more effort and sweat than a man. can be eliminated. "
Ye Qingqing nodded, she understood Lin Baiwei's mood very well, and she was indeed not an easy-going person to achieve her position, nor could she just say a few slogans.
To tell the truth, women want to have a good career and be able to accompany their children to grow up. Unless they have an enlightened and virtuous husband, it is really difficult. Even the Iron Lady, Mrs. Thatcher, who is such a capable woman, can't. To achieve a balance between family and business.
Mrs. Thatcher's relationship with her children was very poor. Her son was still unsatisfactory, and her daughter refused to meet her even when she died. In terms of parent-child relationship, she was a complete failure.
Therefore, it is too difficult for women to balance family and career. After all, time and energy are limited, and it is impossible to cover everything.
Lin Bai snorted slightly, and the more he thought about it, the more aggrieved, "I've worked so hard and paid so much, why can't Xiaojie see my hard work? I mean nothing to him."
Ye Qingqing took out a tissue and handed it to her, comforting: "Don't blame the child, Xiaojie is only five years old, he can't see your hard work, and he can't understand it, he only knows that you are not with him at home, and the one who accompanies him is Grandma, you can't use your mind to understand a child."