Chapter 261

Today's society is a humane society, not a legal society. In such a society, all kinds of relationships crisscross. If you can't deal with relations, you will not be able to do work. If you haven't heard from some responsible personnel, the so-called work now is to balance the relations of all aspects, use relations to solve contradictions, and use contradictions to control the situation. This is what the higher authorities should have For one person, this circle is like a fish pond. Everyone wants to be a loach in the fish pond. They want to be smooth. Haven't you heard that "no matter how good the report is, the wine is better than the wine, the work is less and the dishes can't be less." many important decisions in the circle of responsible persons come from dinners, which is why these responsible persons like to participate in each other The reason for this kind of occasions, and the dinners in this circle have a certain uniqueness. If you participate, your speech at the dinner party may become a rumor; if you do not participate, your rumor may become a speech at the dinner party.

As the saying goes, business can't be criticized, and private affairs can't be kicked. Therefore, no matter what position you go to, you must find a way to do a good job with your boss. Only if you have a close relationship with the boss in private, can we have a good working relationship. This is our most basic national conditions. What's more, we must ask for instructions and report in time, so that we can go to old age when we have nothing to do Sit there and let the boss remember you all the time. Even if you only used to chat with the boss about your daily routine, even if you only used to have a cup of tea after drinking with the boss, then you have to go. Don't be afraid to go to the training. The boss told you that you were taking you as your own person. Didn't you hear that: if you can't find the boss's office today, you can't find your own office tomorrow.

Another important point is that the relationship between the superior and the subordinate must be clear and good. Even if you overturn your superior's mistakes, you will be regarded as disloyal and unfilial by the new boss in the future, and you will not be used for life. There is a brotherhood between the same level. Even if there is a contradiction, it will not hurt the root. If you really upset your colleagues, you will be regarded as inhumane and unjust, and be on guard.

The person in charge you are attached to will always be transferred, retired, collapsed or stepped down. Even if he rises and changes to another person, can his right to speak to this person be maintained? I'm afraid it's more likely to disappear. Because the new man is like a new branch, with his own trunk and branches. What's more, what do you rely on to establish and maintain a close relationship with a powerful person? Is this close relationship unilateral or complementary? If it is the former, you will always be in a state of solicitude for others; if it is the latter, the situation will be even worse, because you have me in you and you in me. However, you can't get involved in his administrative career in an all-round way. You are just one side, one level and one point of him. You are a small knot in his intricate network of relations. Once his side has problems in other aspects, other levels and other networks, you can't help being implicated, and your career is likely to end with it.

It's dangerous for the boss to be unable to control your subordinates, while for the subordinates, being unable to control your superiors will make you uneasy at any time. Therefore, it is not as good as the principle of "who is responsible for more right and wrong things". In this society, whether it is a person or something, there is a difference between having a backing and not. If you want to be in charge, you must have someone in charge. Whether you want to be the person in charge in your life, whether you can be the person in charge and whether you can be the person in charge is not a thing. The person who wants to be the person in charge may not be the person in charge, and the person in charge may not be a good person in charge.

In life, the cases of fighting for the position of a responsible person can be seen everywhere, but those who dare to take up legal weapons to protect themselves, or can protect themselves, are rare. Justice and evil, law and power are always twin brothers, often accompanied by people. It is the trend of this society to promote the person in charge to become rich.

Things in the circle can't be understood. Things related to the common people should not be fast; things involving the interests of the person in charge and the person in charge should not be too fast. Nowadays, everything in society has two sides. One side is open and the other side is covertly. The latter often works. The former is only for the common people to see.

Now, the person in charge of the market is the same as shopping malls. Everything is practical, and everything must be exchanged equally.

It's not that you don't have the ability, but that no one cares about your ability. Don't always think that there will be a boss who will put you in an important position suitable for you. That kind of thing can only appear in books. To let Bole find you, you must make Bole have enough advantages, and must make him feel that finding you is good for him. After Bole finds you, there is another sentence that must be understood Now, isn't everything about an organization? You have to understand that the so-called organization is not really an organization, but a person. Therefore, if you are lucky enough to be promoted, you must say: thank the boss for your appreciation, thank you for the training of the organization, what will I do? Instead of saying thank you for the training of the organization. Without the appreciation of the boss, you will have no use even if you are trained by the organization for a lifetime Isn't it just that you always end up in the post of a section officer? "

Qin Feng never thought that there would be so many doctrines in the circle. He never thought that a sentence with the same meaning had to be said in a different way on some occasions. Otherwise, he would have committed the taboo of the circle. Otherwise, he would have to wait for his retirement in a certain seat. Before, Qin Feng thought that "listening to your words is better than reading ten years' books" Alarmist, now I find that the truth is really like this. At this moment, Qin Feng is like a starving beggar, and Lin Xuemei is holding a delicious cake for his birthday three feet in his hand. After getting up to pour water for Lin Xuemei, Qin Feng can't help saying, "sister Lin, what else is there? Come on and listen to it!""Want to hear it?" As a young woman, Lin Xuemei tilts her head and smiles at Qin Feng. This smile makes Qin Feng understand why there is such a lyric in "the song of beauty". At this moment, Lin Xuemei's smile can really turn all living beings upside down. Qin Feng looks at her stupidly and forgets that she is filling her glass with a kettle until she feels wet This just suddenly wakes up. She can't help wiping the corner of her mouth and smiling apologetically at Lin Xuemei.

"Lin Sister Lin, I really want to see your smile every day. "Putting down the kettle, Qin Feng couldn't help but reach out to touch Lin Xuemei's cheek.

"Qin Feng" listened to Qin Feng's words, Lin Xuemei put up her smile, and her pale expression made Qin Feng's hand frozen in the air. He knew the reason why Lin Xuemei suddenly changed. However, he also knew that he could not change this fact. Seeing each other's smile every day would become a luxury in the near future, and it might never be realized I don't know whether Qin Feng and Lin Xuemei should be held responsible or whether they should be blamed for the fate of fate.

"I'm sorry, sister Lin." Stay in the air of the hand, Qin Feng do not know whether to take back or should continue to adhere to the route he just wanted to go.

"Qin Feng, I will never marry again in this life" stretched out her Qianqian jade hand, and Lin Xuemei held Qin Feng's hand in the air. "All my things are yours. Although I can't be your real wife, I think I'm your real wife. I'll guard my body for you and raise your children for you... "

Later, Lin Xuemei's tears flowed down her cheek. Thinking that she would soon leave Qin Feng and leave Baodong County, where she had lived for many years, she felt like a huge stone in her heart.

"Sister, I..." Qin Feng got up and went to

"forgive me, I really can't..."

Qin Feng knows that at such a moment, what he says is in vain. Since he can't give Lin Xuemei anything, he simply does not want to mention it again, because he really can't let Zhou Ningmeng get hurt.

"Well, no more. What do you think I'm doing here?" Gently push Qin Feng aside, open her bag, take out the paper to wipe the tears on her face, and Lin Xuemei is back to her original color. "I'd better tell you more things. You know, people are not for themselves, and heaven kills the earth. No one will tell you what to do. Even if there is, it will certainly be utilitarian. Otherwise, no one will be stupid enough to sum up himself To impart the experience to others is like playing magic. You can never know what the protagonist will change for you next. Therefore, if you want to get along well, it is not enough to have the ability to see through the magic skills. You must also have the right, the backing, the money, and the power, so that you can control the people who play magic. Even if there is no power, there is enough backing behind you In this society where everything is money oriented, there is enough money in hand to settle a lot of things. Moreover, these three things complement each other, especially between power and money. Of course, all of these are not necessarily able to travel freely in the field of responsible persons. You have to learn to do whatever you want, especially The important thing is not to give the true feelings, this is a truth, but also the true meaning of the responsible person field. Mixing, the true feelings of pay is few can get good returns.

Some words can only be said so far, not too clear. This is an unwritten experience in the circle.