Chapter 262

Small skills can be displayed in front of the boss, while big skills should be hidden, and the deeper the better.

What is a boss? The one who is always courting you with a smile when he needs you to work for him, and always moves your fragile nerves with beautiful words, which makes you happy and excited. This is your boss.

What is a boss? When you don't need any help from you, but on the contrary, you need his regular help. He is always dismissive, absent-minded and indifferent when he is attentive to you. He always has an uncomfortable feeling about your talent performance, and he always suppresses you everywhere and always gives you some advice. This person is also your boss.

The boss is always the boss, and the subordinate is always the subordinate. The boss and you are easy-going, you and the boss are not long-term responsible person. Do not see the boss with you casually, forget yourself.

A boss is a person who can shift the responsibility to others at any time.

Some bosses are angry or in high spirits. They can express their displeasure and even vent their anger with their subordinates. You think that you can open your heart to talk with you. That's a big mistake. Once the leak, the boss can push a clean and clean, the ultimate misfortune is their own. In addition, some bosses engage in infighting, you tie me, I tie you, how to fight, when the lower level can only watch quietly, do not mix up. If you want to hang up in front of the side, you will have to draw a line for you. When you can't eat, walk around.

To be a subordinate, the most important thing is to be able to get angry. Having the boss's admonition is the good quality of the wind in the ear. Maybe you don't think that the boss is worthy of your respect in your heart, but on the scene, you must maintain the face of the superior. You must not be ignorant of the rules and destroy the rules of the game that everyone is careful to respect in the responsible person's field. If you can't do it, Then you think like this: what I respect is not him, but the seat under his buttocks, but the black hat on his head, but the scepter in his hand. All I do is to let this seat see and let this seat remember itself. Therefore, the more people you look down on, the more respect you should have on the scene, just like serving the gods We should know that the subordinates who are not criticized by the boss must be the most unfortunate subordinates. Why does the boss dare to scold the subordinates like their own children is because they are their own people. Therefore, sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing for the boss to respect his subordinates.

This is the case in the circle. If the boss treats you as a pawn and a grandson, he looks down on you; if the boss treats you as a master, you must be a real grandson. "

"That is to say, the more the boss scolds you, the more he attaches importance to you?" Qin Feng interposed.

"It doesn't have to be like this. It depends on the situation. There are some bosses who are jealous of their talents. This kind of boss can't see the people below better than him, so they will try to make sarcasm at you. If you are like this, you should be more careful. You must be alert and clear-minded and never be caught by the other party Handle it. Otherwise, you will be scolded bloody. Some people with poor tolerance may become depressed and lose their fighting spirit. They will no longer have the determination and courage to go up. " Speaking of this, Lin Xuemei sighed, "when you didn't come, there was a section chief in the company like this. Originally, he was more than enough to be a general manager. However, the vice president in charge of him envied his talent and made trouble for him everywhere. However, he thought that the deputy general manager was a man of no learning and had no real ability, so he followed his deputy in charge As a result, the deputy general manager used certain relations to not only go to his position as section chief, but also to other small places. Moreover, the person in charge of that place was the brother-in-law of the deputy general manager. There, the person who had a great hope to be on the top was pressed for five years, five years, what a good life time, and then he was buried The person in charge thought he was talented and wanted to be promoted and promoted, but he found that his age was no longer dominant, so he had to give up. Now, the man is more than 40 years old, still sitting in the position of a member of the staff. A young man who was originally handsome and handsome had stepped into the ranks of the elderly early. Although he was forty, his hair was all white, In the final analysis, it is because he did not recognize the situation, did not realize the importance of contradicting the direct boss. A while ago, I met him once when I was in a government meeting. Now, what he does in his office is doing chores. Those vice presidents who are in their twenties or seventies can call him at will. "

"It's really sad, that vice president is also too nothing," Qin Feng hate said.

"This is not a problem of one person, but a problem of the whole system. In such a big situation, it is such a trend." after the baptism of the circle, Lin Xuemei was very open-minded about many things. "The boss is the authority, and the boss's words are the golden rule, the instruction, the dogma, and the truth. Now, all the people at all levels stress on the legal society and advocate the rule of law What is law and what law is it? It is quite common for the boss to do things well, so long as he is good at the boss, it is a common occurrence. The boss can not be a boss. The promotion is simply so. The situation of the responsible person has the final say. If the boss doesn't feel well one day, the boss will take back the little power in your hand, and the umbrella on your head may turn into a sword, which means that the boss will release his hand Your head has been cut off.In any circle or unit, there are no contradictions, only interests, and there is no right or wrong, but only use. The so-called utilization is that the boss uses his subordinates to do things for him, and the subordinates use the boss to obtain corresponding interests. To paraphrase a famous Western business saying: first, the boss is always right; second, if the boss is wrong, please refer to the first one Well, it means that the boss can't be wrong at all. The reason is that the subordinates may think that the boss is wrong. Therefore, don't try to hold the boss's pigtail, unless you really control the boss's dirty little secret. However, even in that case, maybe you haven't got any benefits by controlling this little secret Now, it's popular to be sick, hospitalized, and resigned. As long as the boss wants to clean you up, you can definitely find a reason to clean you up. Moreover, you can't say that you are dumb and can't say anything about it. This is the realm, a kind of person in high position It requires cultivation, and there are many realms that have already been possessed. "

"Well, I have a deep understanding of this." after listening to Lin Xuemei's words, Qin Feng nodded heavily. "I remember that when I was in the army, the instructor once told us that he took an exam. One of the questions was like this. It said that two armies were fighting on the battlefield. As the commander in charge of the front line, you found an order from the boss in the battle It's wrong. What should you do? Here are three options: 1. Execute, 2. Do not execute. 3. Report while executing. Sister Lin, what do you say you should choose? "

"Of course, the first answer has been implemented." without thinking, Lin Xuemei blurted out.

"Why?" Qin Feng was surprised to ask, "according to the consistent way of thinking, should not choose three?"

"Choice three is certainly wrong, isn't it?" Lin Xuemei tilted her head and laughed.

"Yes, the correct answer is to implement" Qin Feng sighed. "At that time, listening to the instructor's correct answer, I couldn't turn the corner for several days. At that time, I was very puzzled. What's wrong with this side of execution and reporting"

"of course not. The local government stresses that the old-fashioned words should be carried out to the letter. What's more, when the army is on, the military orders are like this Shandao, you think the boss's plan is wrong, but what if the boss gave you a wrong plan to carry out, and asked you to be cannon fodder to buy time for other troops, what should we do? Therefore, the correct answer to this question should be implementation. "

"Well, that's it. Later, the instructor explained to us," Qin Feng nodded. "But later, the instructor also said that, in fact, this question is more about reflecting the boss's words, that is, you can't disobey such a truth. Even at the risk of losing your life, you have to carry out it, and you have to implement it to the letter."

"Yes, the boss's hobby is your hobby, and the boss's action is your compass. Haven't you heard that the shortcut to the promotion of the circle is summed up in three points: the boss fishing you go to the countryside, the boss uses the money to divide the dirty, the boss is good, and you go whoring. If these three points are well controlled, you can be closely tied to the boss. As long as you become a grasshopper on the same line with the boss, do you think the promotion will be far away? In recent years, who will run is the most respectable person, and many people will consciously or unintentionally show their relationship with the backstage, in order to let the people around you look up at you. "With this, Lin Xuemei decided to test Qin Feng's eye color, consciously or unconsciously, gently tapping the cup.

Seeing this, Qin Feng quickly got up and poured the water out of Lin Xuemei's cup and put a new one in front of him. At this moment, the relationship between the two people has virtually become the relationship between the upgrade and the subordinates, and there is no emotion factor in it. Qin Feng does all the actions naturally, and thinks that this is what a driver should do, and there is no such thing The slightest affectation makes Lin Xuemei very satisfied. Qin Feng can always be sober and realize that he should put himself in a proper position. This is very good, at least in Lin Xuemei's eyes. You know, many people rely on their good relationship with the boss. They don't take the boss as the master in private. They think they can be equal with the boss. In fact, you are the only one It's a big mistake. Even if there are only two people, the boss has a strong sense of supremacy. If you really treat the boss as a friend, you should wait to go home and carry the baby!

"At that time, we were in the army as well." put down the kettle in hand, Qin Feng took over the words. "When we just entered the army, the monitor would ask you if it was relevant, and if there was any relationship, especially in the year of study, when we went there, all the fighting was related, and one was stronger than the other. At that time, I remember that a friend was a field battle The relationship between the commander, I feel that I am very good. I walk around with my arm all day without looking at others. A few days later, a monitor who went out to study came back. I heard that there was such a No.1 hanging soldier. Without saying a word, he pulled over a fat beating. After the boy was beaten, he yelled for the monitor to wait for him to be cleaned up, and then cried to find the chief captain. As a result, the chief two He was sent back in a word. Guess what? The monitor was a chief of staff in the military area command. Because of his lack of education, he had to be the person in charge. In that brigade, even the chief captain had to be afraid of three points, but people usually kept a low profile. ""Indeed, some people are relatively low-key and don't like to reveal their relationship to others. Do you know the Ginger Honey of our company?" Lin Xuemei said with a smile.

"The chief of the finance department, Jiang, I don't know!" Qin Feng was surprised and asked, "do you think she has a strong background relationship?"

"Well, in those days, his father was the big head of the company." Lin Xuemei nodded. "But look at her, she just stayed in our company as a section chief"

"why is that?" Qin Feng was surprised to grow up and smacked his tongue in his heart: the heart said that there was such a powerful Laozi, and he was still in the real power department. According to his own speculation, how can we get a person in charge to do it? Why is it just a section chief in an enterprise company? And this time, in order to enter the vice president's affairs, he tried to find his own way to compromise. This is also a bit incredible ?

"Why do you say that?" Lin Xuemei smiles and takes a sip of the water Qin Feng just poured on her.

"I don't know" Qin Feng shook his head, and said that she didn't see how rich Jiang MI was. Looking at her daily clothes, although she was better than the other section chiefs, she was definitely not a luxury. Moreover, it is said that the little money she made in the unit did not dare to show her husband a fair share of cards. Her husband, by the way, is not her husband a responsible person, and it is not right Last time I saw her husband pick her up, it seems that she drove a Charley? Qin Feng is really confused this time.

"Ha ha, this is a secret, which few people know." Lin Xuemei said mysteriously with a smile, "it's not the time to tell you. In the future, you will gradually understand. What I have to admire is that Minister Jiang's careful mind is absolutely not under my father. Such a cadre, who only works as the executive deputy director of the Municipal Organization Department, is really a bit of a stoop."

at this moment, Lin Xuemei looks a little old-fashioned, as if she were It's like the old man who used to patrol the south.

Jiang MI, is there a secret behind this beautiful woman who once wanted to ask for her help? Qin Feng is very interested in people. He always likes to explore other people's privacy, especially when the privacy of the other party is still more interesting. Although he is a man, Qin Feng still has some gossip psychology. Beautiful women, descendants of high responsible people, are really fantastic.

"I tell you, don't go to Jiang Mi's idea, such a woman you can't touch." looking at Qin Feng's somewhat absent expression, Lin Xuemei couldn't help knocking.

"Don't worry, sister Lin, it won't be." Qin Feng took back some of his mind that he wanted to float far away. He said with a smile, "since I had you, all the women have lost their luster in front of me"

"come on, you! I don't know your nature yet. How many times has Hanyu been here? " White Qin Feng one eye, Lin Xuemei said coyly, but, the heart is still sweet, women, is always easy to be confused by sweet words, although as the head of the Housing Authority, but Lin Xuemei is a woman, naturally inevitable with a woman's nature.

"Containing jade, what is jade?" Qin Feng tried to pretend to be stupid. When she saw that Lin Xuemei wanted to get angry, she quickly changed her words and said, "are you talking about the elder sister Hanyu? Is that your friend? "

"Not her. Who else?" Lin Xuemei said angrily, "this girl, I think I don't know. I come to see you if I have something to do. She thinks she's doing it very hidden."

Qin Feng's heart pounded: originally, Lin Xuemei knows everything, but why hasn't she said it all the time? Is it because of my face? Or is it?

"The past things have been overturned. I don't care how many times you have had, and no matter what step you have developed to, anyway, there will never be any more" Lin Xuemei at the moment is totally in a posture of defending her own home.

"No, it hasn't been a long time." when he said this, Qin Feng felt a little sorry. To tell the truth, as a man, no one can withstand the enchantment of Hanyu on the Kang. No one can resist the madness of Hanyu on the Kang, especially a mature young woman from a good family, an enchanting and charming woman, all of which add up to make Qin Fengxiang want Don't forget.

"Miss her, don't you?" How can Qin Feng's expression Hide from Lin Xuemei's eyes? Looking at Qin Feng's expression, she knows what the other party is thinking. Can't help but owe the body, twist Qin Feng's ear.

"No, no, nothing" this time, it seems that Lin Xuemei is really a little angry, because no woman can tolerate her man sitting in front of her, but she is thinking of another woman in her heart.

"What's not? You can see that you look relaxed and happy. It's obvious that you can't extricate yourself from it." Lin Xuemei wrung Qin Feng's ear angrily, and then sat back to her seat. She put her head aside and did not look at Qin Feng.

"Sister Lin, it's all my fault. I really dare not think about it any more, let alone do it. Sister Hanyu came once..." Said, Qin Feng seems to be aware of something, want to stop it is too late, because he found the opposite Lin Xuemei seems to roar.

"You mean, you mean that woman really came?" Lin Xuemei said with gnashing teeth.

Damn it!

She didn't know that hanyu had been here. Now, everything has been exposed. It's over. It's over. Qin Feng would like to smoke his two ear scrapers, the heart said how can not hide things!However, the words have been spoken, and it is too late to take them back. You can only take one step at a time. No matter it is a storm or a rainstorm, you can accept it as you like!

"Well, she did come once." Qin Feng gritted his teeth and told Lin Xuemei about Hanyu's visit. Of course, he omitted the money that hanyu had given him. As a man, Qin Feng still has some self-esteem and doesn't want to be seen as the object of being wrapped up. Although it is not a bag, in fact, it already has the fact of being wrapped.

"Just once?" At this moment, Lin Xuemei felt a kind of inexplicable emptiness. Just now, all her things were just platitudes, but she didn't expect that there would be such a thing.